tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post6647211411595142358..comments2023-10-30T08:16:14.025-04:00Comments on Just Curious: VolunteeringAnitahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08180243708565855383noreply@blogger.comBlogger37125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-54356177943302128592010-12-31T17:27:25.469-05:002010-12-31T17:27:25.469-05:00Anita! I just wanted to wish you a very happy new ...Anita! I just wanted to wish you a very happy new year and thank you so much for your support on my blog! I just started hitting my stride and figuring out what topics I want to write about, and you've been so warm and positive. Can't wait to read more of your posts...and loved the one you wrote about women's roles.Priya Shankarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18414730198707625395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-18875460076002603692010-12-28T13:05:06.292-05:002010-12-28T13:05:06.292-05:00always been a doer. have had to learn how to be &q...always been a doer. have had to learn how to be "selfish" - which isn't what it actually is, but learning how to say no, and allowing others the opportunity to do it. And if it doesn't get done, then it either didn't really NEED to, or that's just life, and someone else can feel guilty, if they want to. <br /><br />I remember Paul saying, "Whether through pure motives or impure, what is important is that the Word of God is preached." (TOTAL paraphrase, I'm sure). But - what i've tried to do is NOT let that be motivation for feeling guilty that I'm not always the one "preaching" (in whatever form or fashion).<br /><br />one other thing: I have a married couple friend, and they have taught 4 year olds Sunday School for almost ten years. The wife is SO sick of it, but wants to do it because she wants to be "in some sort of ministry" with her husband. But, she teaches high schoolers ALL DAY EVERY DAY. He has said, "I don't care if she does it or not. For me, it's my ONLY outlet to give and I LOVE it." Interesting, I think.Sohailahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07705675992572434472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-66550600264593816122010-12-25T17:35:47.768-05:002010-12-25T17:35:47.768-05:00Just wanted to wish you a Merry Xmas, Anita! I act...Just wanted to wish you a Merry Xmas, Anita! I actually wrote a post a few days ago on my bday about giving.. it was inspired by this piece on volunteering. Looking forward to more of your posts!Priya Shankarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18414730198707625395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-82558120766837312010-12-24T06:11:00.158-05:002010-12-24T06:11:00.158-05:00I really should proof read what I write - that sho...I really should proof read what I write - that should be 'on Christmas Eve' and Merry Christmas'<br />Have a good one<br />CathyCathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09487589871746402154noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-47761889342991615592010-12-24T06:07:30.385-05:002010-12-24T06:07:30.385-05:00Hello Anita
Almost bedtime here on so I just poppe...Hello Anita<br />Almost bedtime here on so I just popped in to say Marry Christmas and send best wished for the New Year. Lets hope all your dreams come true in 2011. <br />Like so many of your readers I've always been a volunteering person - too many causes to name here - but will just say the love we give is like no other and those who receive it couldn't do without it<br />Take care<br />CathyCathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09487589871746402154noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-16733691457773592132010-12-22T17:54:25.854-05:002010-12-22T17:54:25.854-05:00I know it is amazing how volunteering situations c...I know it is amazing how volunteering situations changes with life. I was also brought up to volunteer. I go to nursing homes once a year and volunteer mainly with special needs children. It is a lot of fun it is just a pity that life is so busy, there is not enough time to do all the volunteering I would have like to have done.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-5198349184235692242010-12-21T22:13:47.030-05:002010-12-21T22:13:47.030-05:00I Anita..I love when you stop by...you remind me o...I Anita..I love when you stop by...you remind me of who I cant wait to visit...Ive given up on my reader ...I try to keep up but when it hits 1000..I just hit delete...and start fresh..I think you know my schedule now...and the little time I have to myself..I try to create...I do miss my blogging life but I still get to it over the weeks...I am a giver...I do at my job so I give to other events and persons...Besides at the school..there was always an overabundance of doers and they liked the spotlight..I did not...I did the PTA thing...class mom and so forth...but always went the distance with my kids and their friends rather than spending time up at the school...I gave in different ways...like watching other children for parents who had to work...driving kids to events, carpooling..and also giving quality time by playing, reading talking to and listening to kids..and donating goods, toys and books to others...I still do that at my job and for the community..and I think its just my nature to give like this...smarteehttp://insightsandbellylaughs.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-20329259769204383762010-12-21T20:37:22.535-05:002010-12-21T20:37:22.535-05:00My Mom was the Queen of Volunteering. She was in ...My Mom was the Queen of Volunteering. She was in charge of all the volunteers at our local hospital and did that job as a volunteer for what seemed like the entire time I was growing up. After she left it became a paid position!! I volunteered every year from Grade 7 or 8, weekly, right through Univerisy. Now, I do what I can. I swear to you life is busier. I think the life of a volunteer ebbs and flows. I think anyone who gives even a moment of their time is appreciated:) At least I hope so!<br />Happy Holidays to you and yours:)Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17218519474695662328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-32386885471180930022010-12-21T09:30:12.844-05:002010-12-21T09:30:12.844-05:00I volunteer at our church in the guest services de...I volunteer at our church in the guest services dept (seating people, passing the offering plate, etc.). I did the children's dept volunteering for a while because they were desperate. I have helped in the children's dept at most every church we have gone to. I have six kids and they seem to feel I would be good at it. The thing is, though---I'm not! I greatly disliked it and MUCH prefer volunteering in a place where I deal with ADULTS!andreanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-69812955138250503552010-12-19T21:31:32.828-05:002010-12-19T21:31:32.828-05:00I find myself becoming more of a volunteer, but tr...I find myself becoming more of a volunteer, but truly, TRULY, I say no if it is something that is not a good fit. <br /><br />For example, I don't do anything involving crafts or cutting or cutsy. I just can't. <br /><br />Ask me to write or shop or deliver things or paint.walls..I'm your girl.Nancy Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04313721217543578257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-4318110473138169962010-12-18T14:14:54.972-05:002010-12-18T14:14:54.972-05:00I believe there are always opportunities that cros...I believe there are always opportunities that cross your path to help others. I try to be aware and offer what I can in those moments.<br /><br />Happy Holidays!<br />Julie<br /><a href="http://juliemagerssoulen.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Julie Magers Soulen Photography</a>Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11773042400899326514noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-7929719667932818512010-12-18T00:24:56.468-05:002010-12-18T00:24:56.468-05:00I am not a doer. I just look at people like you in...I am not a doer. I just look at people like you in awe and appreciation...I really do appreciate those of you who give of your time to make up for those of us who are highly uncomfortable in any situation requiring more of my time. So thank you!Sandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09894333322881236627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-77809924148841141152010-12-17T00:18:23.981-05:002010-12-17T00:18:23.981-05:00ohhhh I totally a mix of both! ;)ohhhh I totally a mix of both! ;)Iva Messyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10569911896394751235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-76686192716546430262010-12-15T00:50:53.010-05:002010-12-15T00:50:53.010-05:00I enjoyed volunteering as a teen but now that I...I enjoyed volunteering as a teen but now that I'm older and working a full time job, it's so difficult to find the time. There are lots of ways to make it happen but I'm just lacking in the inspiration to do it.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04459265311205890622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-17584698437978793882010-12-14T23:11:12.900-05:002010-12-14T23:11:12.900-05:00I love this post, because I can completely relate....I love this post, because I can completely relate. There is a wide spectrum of thoughts on it. I've gotten very involved in one particular issue- maternal and child health in India. It's specific because I spent a year living there and researching the topic. But I think there is something so rewarding about even doing something nice for someone, helping them cross the street, etc... doesn't have to always be accompanies by pomp and circumstance.<br /><br />Anyways, just loved this post. I recently wrote one about KIVA loans-- easy for people to contribute to without having to get up and DOPriya Shankarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18414730198707625395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-18571041769083719462010-12-14T22:36:40.694-05:002010-12-14T22:36:40.694-05:00My mom did a lot of volunteering with our church. ...My mom did a lot of volunteering with our church. Sadly I have not done much myself lately. I really should try to do more! <br />Great post!gaylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00894920637532415315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-56752869734221702252010-12-14T15:48:08.981-05:002010-12-14T15:48:08.981-05:00I don't volunteer at all at the moment - but I...I don't volunteer at all at the moment - but I've got a plan! I'm going to train to do some of the weekend/night shifts at the Samaritans. Do you have those in the States? I think the training and the work is quite challenging, but I'm a good listener and I think you're right - play to your strengths! Signing up is my New Year's resolution. I also wanted to say thanks so much for stopping by so often on my blog aand leaving uch lovely, caring and supportive comments. Happy Christmas! xKatehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12448831402553298056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-31942406194713926642010-12-14T11:58:53.378-05:002010-12-14T11:58:53.378-05:00I used to be a big doer until I wore myself thin. ...I used to be a big doer until I wore myself thin. I had specific causes. Now, I still have top of the list causes, but I learned how to say no and don't do nearly as much as I could or should. Right now, I have an elderly friend that I help out by grocery shopping and doing her laundry every week and just spending time with her. I don't consider this a charitable cause but an act of friendship. She is 98, so I don't know how much time I have left with her. I'd like to spend as much time with her and help her as much as I can. Someday, I'm sure I'll get back to volunteering (with limitations).SuziCatehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04025931724313344438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-12846922700895998052010-12-12T19:48:51.676-05:002010-12-12T19:48:51.676-05:00I think a lot of it has to do with a person's ...I think a lot of it has to do with a person's personality style, their traits and opinions. I've always been more of a giver than a doer, mostly because that's just a more comfortable way of being charitable, for me. Thank goodness the combination of both keep the charitable system going!Joannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03972054718663959694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-29259459619854974882010-12-11T15:33:42.026-05:002010-12-11T15:33:42.026-05:00Ever since I "retired" to be a mom, I...Ever since I "retired" to be a mom, I've been on the volunteer bandwagon, so I guess I'm a doer. But it's certainly not for altruistic reasons only. I enjoy volunteering because it's a good way to meet and make new friends with similar interests. Plus, there's no worry of being "downsized"!Abbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05853360875281742784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-83417256331309773602010-12-11T14:32:08.991-05:002010-12-11T14:32:08.991-05:00anita,
what a good post. I think I'm probably...anita,<br /><br />what a good post. I think I'm probably too much of both right no(doer and giver). I have a really hard time saying no. I write a lot of checks and serve on several boards/committees. I am one of those who gets things done. But I'm also raising 5 year old twins and I get stressed out. Sometimes i"m not sure why I said I'd do this or that...I feel like I"m drowning. But my heartstrings get yanked at a lot. It's hard for me to just say no.<br /><br />My mom volunteered a lot and so I think I learned a lot of that from her.<br /><br />My dad is in town and we were just talking about this last night. He said he's "not a do-gooder." He does, however, write a lot of checks.....Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13214914707096410664noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-91847535058589166042010-12-11T11:29:44.391-05:002010-12-11T11:29:44.391-05:00~Balance is a wonderful word~
I can relate to muc...~Balance is a wonderful word~<br /><br />I can relate to much of what you have shared here. <br /><br />I am both a giver and a do-er.<br /><br />At times I have just "done" waaaaay to much...to the point that my family has sacrificed. <br /><br />Now, I think very carefully about what I commit to. It is hard to do that when you love to serve.<br /><br />But, ulitimately, finding a good balance is the only way that I can keep sane. <br /><br />Great post :)<br /><br />Christmas blessings to you!wife.mom.nursehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16161476116382515206noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-79205369412674199912010-12-11T07:52:15.891-05:002010-12-11T07:52:15.891-05:00In my opinion, the best and most fulfulling lives ...In my opinion, the best and most fulfulling lives are those lived in service....but living in service can be as many things as there are people who live them.<br /><br />I'm a doer and giver, but in my opinion, there is always room to improve...regardless of who you are and what you give and do.<br /><br />It's a journey, not a destination.People Who Know Me Would Say:https://www.blogger.com/profile/04621641188403948733noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-16729083499005659272010-12-10T21:22:59.861-05:002010-12-10T21:22:59.861-05:00I volunteer for partially selfish reasons --becaus...I volunteer for partially selfish reasons --because my children are in the system. It's one way for me to know what's happening in their schools, at Sunday school, and be better able to talk about things that happen there with them when they come home. But I also volunteer because I feel that I could contribute. So it's a win-win situation.Buckeroomamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02408502555249594576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5253987680038616859.post-716816853298751782010-12-10T20:26:40.500-05:002010-12-10T20:26:40.500-05:00Oh, and I meant to mention that I got a kick out o...Oh, and I meant to mention that I got a kick out of how Blogger structured the following partial sentence on one line (at least how it appears to me)...<br /><br />"...so I donated blood regularly and passed out .."<br /><br />;)Hilaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12787493532006658679noreply@blogger.com